Intimacy is not about sex at all. It’s actually about a caring, kindness, presence and generosity with you that then allows you to be that with others.

It doesn’t matter what the level of that relationship is – whether it’s a friend, family member, coworker or partner – when you can have an intimacy with you, all the need for approval goes away. All the need of having to have someone goes away. All the need of having anyone as a completion of you goes away.

And the beautiful part about that is, when the need is gone, any of those things can show up in your world with much more ease!