This is a doozie. Especially if you’ve ever been in a relationship. Or are in one. Or would like to be at some point in the future. Then this one is for you. Just saying… May your hidden agendas no longer be with you. Dain…Read More
I personally know how to do relationships really badly. Because of that, I had to look at this area really dynamically to see what else is possible. I have looked and looked and looked at what creates a great relationship, and I must tell you…Read More
True intimacy with another occurs when we’re attentive, at ease, and in the moment. So how do we create that? I believe we make that possible when we embrace and practice the five elements of intimacy – honor, trust, allowance, vulnerability, and gratitude. You get…Read More
If you’re feeling a sense of disharmony and separation in your love life, the route to fixing things might be easier and shorter than you imagined. Like so many things, it begins with a choice. You’ve chosen to be with your partner, so what if…Read More
Have you spent your life searching for the fairy-tale relationship, believing it must exist somewhere and feeling disappointed because you couldn’t find it? Staying committed to the illusion of the fairy tales can actually ruin your relationships. Either you will pass over people with whom…Read More
Believing in that “perfect” partner… placing your happiness in someone else’s hands… and trying to force an existing relationship to match some ideal you have in your head destroys your potential for real, lasting love before you can even realize it. It’s actually incredibly destructive to…Read More
I recently got to have a really fun conversation on KTLA TV in Los Angeles where I shared tools and questions to assist you in creating the relationship you have always been asking for. If you are looking for a relationship or asking for a…Read More
I recently had the honor of being featured amongst other relationship experts in Popsugar’s publication, “50 Pieces of the Best Marriage Advice We’ve Ever Collected“. Here are a few of the tips that you can incorporate in your life which make such a difference in…Read More
What if we could create a world where nobody had to be more or less valuable than anybody else? What would it be like to honor everybody around you, including you? Here are two videos from my Return of the Gentleman series on intimacy and…Read More
What can a gentleman do different in his interactions with people? A gentleman functions from the 5 elements of intimacy – gratitude, honoring, allowance, vulnerability, and trust – that allow him to be totally present with other people and know what he can contribute. When…Read More