It is me again! I have a Holiday challenge for you! (Oh, and a correction.) The challenge: What if you could just like you, as you are, for the next few days? What if you did not have to to be perfect, to be wonderful?…Read More
Kindness. What the bleep is that? I once asked my best friend Gary Douglas: What is the difference between being “nice” and being “kind”? He said that being nice is when your aim is to make people feel good. Being kind is the willingness to…Read More
In every workplace and friendship circle, there’s often that one person who makes a habit of putting everyone else’s needs and wants before their own; and is often identified as a people pleaser. Generous as that sounds, there’s a downside. This urge can begin to…Read More
Today I am taking you to the rolling hills of Texas, USA. And yep, I am wearing a cowboy hat again. It is one of those days. I’d like to talk to you about being kind…to you. And I’d like to talk to you about: STOP…Read More
I had a date in my diary for my suicide. I had a beautiful girlfriend and everything looked great. But I was dying inside. I woke up every day more and more depressed. I got to the point where I couldn’t handle it and I…Read More
Should you try and please everyone? There’s an old saying that “You can please some people all the time. You can please all of the people some of time; but you can’t please everyone all the time.” What if there is a different possibility? Here…Read More
The End of the BLEH-Day… Do you know what BLEH-day is? Well, it kind of the opposite of a wow-day… It is one of those days when nothing really seems right, good or even slightly enjoyable. Everything is just a bit off and…BLEH! But here is…Read More
We wrote a little book about baby unicorns. It tells the true tale about what would be possible if we all treated each other as we should be treated – instead of the way most of us have been treated. It is a guide on…Read More
All I ever really cared about – ever since I was a kid – was to be HAPPY. And to make other people HAPPY. And for people to know what is TRUE for them. (Yep, I am a dreamer!) Here is the thing: We have…Read More
As much as I would like to wave my magic wand and get rid of all of the judgment in the world, that’s not likely to occur anytime soon. Most of us know what it feels like to be judged. Whether we are judged for the…Read More