How much have we been taught to believe that boredom is an inevitable part of relationships, especially if you have been in one for say, longer than six minutes? What if boredom in relationships is not inevitable, significant, or even a problem? What if it’s…Read More
What do you need? Really. Money? Food? A roof over your head? To be loved? To be seen? To be appreciated? To reach your goals? To be successful? To “make it”? What if this whole need thing is just an… invention? A Catch 22 so…Read More
Relationships. If you’ve ever had one, you know that when they’re going great, life is great! But when they’re not so great, everything in your life is affected. What actually happens in a relationship that takes it from being fun, playful and amazing to lifeless,…Read More
Most of us have been in relationships before. We might be in them now. If you are, is yours fun and exciting? Is it playful? Does it bring more ease and joy into your life? Does it make your life greater? Or, perhaps, there was…Read More
Do you ever notice that when relationships start out, everything is amazing? Your partner is amazing. The time you spend together is amazing. Everything is fun, spacious, joyful, easy, and then… things start to change. That “perfect” person is no longer acting perfect. You start…Read More
It’s no secret than men and women are different. One inherent difference that can cause relationship angst is when a woman wants to “talk” about what’s on a man’s mind. You see, most women desire to talk a lot more than men. Especially if they have stress or a problem going…Read More
Have you ever gotten together with someone and cut the things or people out of your life that you really enjoy? Maybe because you thought it wouldn’t fit with your new relationship or partner? Has that ever worked for you? What if you didn’t have…Read More
Have you ever felt like you lost you when you entered into a relationship with someone? This is often how relationships ‘work’ in this reality….and it’s the biggest substitute for intimacy and what people misidentify as oneness. Listen to the soundclip below for more on relationships…Read More
The holidays are over. The New Year is here. This is about the time when many of us begin to recognize that we’ve already given up on those New Year’s resolutions that we set and promised we would keep. More reasons to judge ourselves. Often…Read More
How often do you allow yourself to choose something just because it would be pleasurable to you and your body? How often to you allow yourself to indulge in that pleasure without judgment or guilt? How many walls and barriers come up just at the…Read More