I personally know how to do relationships really badly. Because of that, I had to look at this area really dynamically to see what else is possible. I have looked and looked and looked at what creates a great relationship, and I must tell you…Read More
True intimacy with another occurs when we’re attentive, at ease, and in the moment. So how do we create that? I believe we make that possible when we embrace and practice the five elements of intimacy – honor, trust, allowance, vulnerability, and gratitude. You get…Read More
How would you rate your love life on a scale of 1-10 (with 10 being the best ever)? If you are like most people, you would probably rate it around 5 or less…either because you’re single, or because you’re in a relationship where deep down…Read More
If you’re feeling a sense of disharmony and separation in your love life, the route to fixing things might be easier and shorter than you imagined. Like so many things, it begins with a choice. You’ve chosen to be with your partner, so what if…Read More
If you are currently in a relationship, is it fun and exciting? Is it playful? Does it bring more ease and joy into your life? Does it make your life greater? Or perhaps there was a time, maybe in the beginning, when your relationship was…Read More
Believing in that “perfect” partner… placing your happiness in someone else’s hands… and trying to force an existing relationship to match some ideal you have in your head destroys your potential for real, lasting love before you can even realize it. It’s actually incredibly destructive to…Read More
How do you rekindle the flame and make your relationship or marriage stronger? I was recently on KTLA TV talking about creating your relationship anew everyday and functioning from gratitude with and for your partner! Here are some tips! Dain P.S. For more on relationships, you…Read More
This is a doozie. Especially if you’ve ever been in a relationship. Or are in one. Or would like to be at some point in the future. Then this one is for you. Just saying… May your hidden agendas no longer be with you. Dain…Read More
What if we could create a world where nobody had to be more or less valuable than anybody else? What would it be like to honor everybody around you, including you? Here are two videos from my Return of the Gentleman series on intimacy and…Read More
What can a gentleman do different in his interactions with people? A gentleman functions from the 5 elements of intimacy – gratitude, honoring, allowance, vulnerability, and trust – that allow him to be totally present with other people and know what he can contribute. When…Read More