What can a gentleman do different in his interactions with people? A gentleman functions from the 5 elements of intimacy – gratitude, honoring, allowance, vulnerability, and trust – that allow him to be totally present with other people and know what he can contribute. When…Read More
Do you realize that any relationship is actually about the distance between two things? It computes how far away or close are you in relation this person or thing. Rather than being in oneness, we’re all taught to go into digitized relationships that are based…Read More
When you were growing up, did you have someone to look up to, to admire and to teach you about the value of being a gentleman? You may have been one of the lucky ones who had that in your life, but if not, it’s never…Read More
Some things we’ve been entrained OUT OF. Like having the total joy of orgasmic living! As kids, many of us actually had this capacity naturally… On hot summer days, we would eat an ice-cream with total presence in every molecule of our body: letting the…Read More
As a young child growing up in the ghetto, I didn’t have many examples of generosity. Life was often the exact opposite. But even as a little kid, I always wanted to give to people. When I was 6 years old, I went on a trip to…Read More
What if the desire to be right always gets in your way of being free and happy? Here are some key questions to ask, and tools to use, to navigate conflict! As a gentleman you get to choose how to be with a situation. You…Read More
Consciousness is not just about being happy all the time! And even after 17 years of using the tools from Access Consciousness, I too have a bad day (or days ) every now and then. The change you’re asking for never shows up the way you…Read More
Do you realize that we use our mind to create a separation between us and our energetic awareness? The mind functions like a very conservative stingy gate-keeper, making sure only what it recognizes and judges as good and real can come through. That, my friend,…Read More
I recently had a brilliant conversation and question and answer session with men from all over the world. What got created is the video below – the fourth installment of The Return of the Gentleman… It is an episode on getting over your moral compass,…Read More
Have you been trying to figure out and fit into the role of a man? Nobody has actually ever showed us how to be a gentleman – how to honor yourself, to honor women and to live with a sense of honor. Come along with…Read More
